Dunno what to make of H right now. Yesterday afternoon he just looked strange. DD9 had been complaining of a pain in her side so I told H and asked him when did he have appendicitis as a kid. H stared at me with a smile. But didn`t answer. I asked him again. But he just seemed lost in another world and yet smiled at me strangely did said "what was that?" I really got a shock and asked him if he was okay but I left then as I had decided not to get pulled in to fixing him.
Half and hour later he was fixing himself something to eat so I figured well, he must be okay...
This am he`s back in angry mode. I just can tell now by his demeanour-dead eyes, stern expression. But I`m ignoring it. Light-though little-chat on my part. Then I find he`s been at through my phone again-trying to find the pin number so it`s blocked. And doing silly stuff like putting away the ironing board when I`ve taken it out, eating the dinner I`ve left but leaving his dirty dishes around.
Could the guy be suffering from depression?He`s got all the withdrawn behaviours, the diconnection from his kids, me and his own family. Avoidance of people. Emotional unavailblity. Irrational behaviour. Mood swings. Anger.
I`m stayin` calm, calm. But my gf is concerned and is urging me to call the doc. She`s a psychiatric nurse and knows her stuff.
