My wife said that her main issue was that she didnt want to have sex with me...no sexual feelings..she said she likes it when i hug her and that it feels good but it feels like a friend and not a lover.
This is basically the same crap my wife said to me. It turned out that she was "seeing" someone else. Sounds like this could be the case for you too. Be careful!
Do be careful. I read constantly on here that the W must be having an affair. I never came close to having an affair but had lost almost all sexual desire for my H mostly because a) I felt deprived in other areas of the R/alienated from H and b) I had lost respect for him (for deferring to me, blaming me, and not TCB).
