Ya know the main problem is that W needs to face her own Demons, I understand the "philosophy" of "we both are to blame" but I NEVER did anything to justify this. I NEVER lied to her, I NEVER beat her, I Never belittled her, and I ALWAYS gave her anything she asked for. So her not making it clear that something is wrong, Her not trying to work it out together to see if we can "fix" our problems justifies an affair? Justifies me losing my dignity? It’s like saying it was my fault that she got drunk and killed someone in an accident. UNTIL she accepts what happened and wants to really fix it then all I am doing by letting it go and pretending everything is all right is enabling her…” I’m sorry you got drunk and drove... It’s just as much my fault as yours. Don’t worry about the guy that died... That is in the past let’s move on”……. Was out of the house early this morning. When I got home wife walked right past me in the kition not saying a word………….as SHE would say…. “oh well”
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
