True Love or True Fog? Changing Forums

[Silver Fox]

Ok, now I'm so angry on so many different levels. I never sent H a response and I guess I should have because this is the email he sends this morning:

Given the lack of communication I'm assuming there is no hope of reaching a settlement tomorrow. I'm really sory about that--for both of us--but I respect your decision. I was going to have my sister be my "separate and apart" witness but I couldm't justify asking her to come so far without any sense of whether it might be possible to resolve things. I just don't know anyone else. If I'm wrong and you would like the chance to move forward perhaps you would consider asking a friend of yours? We only need one witness.

I don't understand what's happened over these last couple weeks. I thought we were communicating better and moving toward resolution.I'm sorry that had to change.

Is he kidding me?!!! Hello earth to H - we don't even have an agreement!! "We only need one witness"??? - how about we only need a formal, written settlement including our signatures agreeing to, oh let's see: 1. Alimony 2. H's retirement fund 3. What happens to the house, etc., etc., etc.

Not my problem that his L is on vacation all last week - the week that should have been used to pass the terms back and forth until all was settled.

He "thought we were communicating better"???? Oh my God! I don't even know what to say to this. We haven't seen each other in 3 months and the last phone conversation was in June.

He was going to have his sister be a witness?? She lives over 10 hours away!

Damn it H, wake up!