Exactly Sara... I was trying to find a way to say that moving forward, out of limbo, is different than moving ON. But this journey is the way to go no matter where you end up.
The beauty of this course of action is that it doesn't matter if you decide you are "in" or just want Dan to eventually find the tools to be a role model for his son and father to a daughter.
Either way you need to just get out of his way so he has one less voice in his head to deal with.
