good job! But now you have to get off the schedule...understand you can't rely on him. Let him know and work it out between the two of you when he has S and let it go at that. He will eventually get better at letting you know what the plan will be....IF you let this go for now.
It's one of his controls over you. So take it away.
You can do this and OW is possible but don't fret about it yet. See what happens how his actions may indicate there's an OW. Lots of texts....walking away when his phone rings....etc.
