Time can be an ally. It can also be an excuse, a chance for WAW to catch her breath before the next round.
The pari-menopausal loss of sexual interest is possible, but the more likely culprit is the process itself - to be intimate means admitting you into her world in a way she thinks she wants you out of. An affair is another. In my sitch I hit the trifecta - menopause, "I'm done," AND affair.
Right now though, sex is the least of your concerns. 30 days to arouse her interest means major DB kung-fu, all under what will surely be a very gimlet eye. So start to roll.
