I've been following your sitch for awhile, but I forgot way in the beginning. Was there an OM?
It's just not working right now.
YOU ARE SOOOO RIGHT. I am tired of Kissing A@@ Yes there was a OM. Ya know OT and everyone else... Romancing her, Caring for her Trusting her is what got me into this mess in the first place. NOT demanding respect, not standing up to the affair in the first place because I was weak is why I am here today. I have nothing further to say to wife until she wants to talk about what the He11 is going on. If she wants to live in another room that is not ok with me. She needs to think about herself also and move out. I have detached in the past. I thought I was finely rebuilding our R But I was right when I posted She just gives me enough to be on life support. I really think it is time to totally detach and get my own life. It’s time to let everyone know we are “separated”... No I am not going to “out” what wife did but if anyone asks ME why I can’t work things out I will just tell them she does not want to be married anymore…let her explain………..
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
