Hey lodo, yes choking form fire smoke. Although I am far away from the hell of fire, pretty sad, I left my window open and my house is now full with ashes...
I'll find the thread again and post a link.
FiL wants us to reconcile. He said his son messed up and that he lost control. He said nomatter what happens he will make sure she is out of the picture. I told him the damage is done.
When I asked him what he would have done if his daughter was in my shoes, he said stbXH is lucky my dad in a gentleman.
