Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

[AFWAW]

thanks to all. while i thought she had an A and everyone and their mother (incl my mother!)thinks so as well i dont think she has. I know this sounds bizarre but i tried every trick in the book to try to catch her and havent been able to.
she also swore on the lives of the kids that she hasnt.

I didn't want to think that my wife had an affair either. Now, I'm not saying that she has but consider this. Women who go this route IMO appear to be more sneaky than men. Mine lied to my face many, many, many times about OM. I tried to catch my wife w/ every trick in the book as well and she still was able to hide it from me! Your wife knows you better than anyone and knows how you react to certain situations, as such, she will know what to say and how to say it to make you believe anything she says.

Lack of respect is where it starts! Be careful! I hope you are right and there is no OM.


Look for the obvious signs:
New hairstyle or color?
New clothes or dressing to accentuate?
New workout program?
diet?
Listening to different music?

I saw these signs and thought that she was just trying new things--remember, 99% of people out there don't change for no reason--something is driving that change. Be careful! Look for the obvious! Use logic and keep your emotions out of it as hard as it is.