Yes you are. First you tell her not to bother you unless it is about your daughter and then you complain about it when she does.
Ok, you're right. If there is something legitimate to respond to I will and if not, I won't make it a big deal. Goes to the whole being unattached deal--apparently, I still have some work to do.
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I haven't responded to her email as there is no real request in it.
Correct. Stay on this path. Your track record shows that you cave to her at the slightest hint from her. That was one of the reasons I told you not to backslide. It will take longer now because of your past track record.
Got it and I can see how right you are now that I think about it.
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SOCIAL INTERACTION... very important.
Went out to dinner by myself last night as my D had a b-day party to go to. Sitting at the bar eating and started talking to nice couple next to me. They say hey, you look like someone we know, blah, blah, blah. Anyway, we get to the point where they ask if I'm married, single, etc. I say, I'm going divorce now. Oh, they say, well, we usually hang out at xyz with our friends and we have a couple of unattached girlfriends. We'll be there next weekend if you want to stop by. Ok, sounds good.
Yes, I'm enjoying social interaction. Finally, now that my head is out of the sand, I'm seeing a lot more opportunity to interact w/ other people.
Oh, funny stuff you said about holding the line--she emailed me at 3:17am about a book I talked about a few weeks ago. Once again, no response. My appointment with the lawyer is tomorrow.
Last edited by AFWAW; 08/23/0912:31 PM.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
