I felt great when I moved my H's things out! Just not seeing his presence in every room was so good for me. Its all still in the garage, but at least its not in my bedroom, or living room, etc. It was empowering.

As far as Im concerned, he left over a year ago, he abandoned anything that he had a right to! He took his guns and basically left everything else. Ive thought about selling some of it, the 4 wheeler, boat, and he has a pretty good sized collection of swords, but I dont think that I could justify that. And I really like having a 4 wheeler!


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...