Today I went and had to take care of my car for a good portion of the first part of the day. Then me and my dad went and ate some great barbq. Then I went to pick up my girls from W's house. As she was bringing things over to the trunk of my car for my girls to bring over, she griped at me for not having my trunk cleaned out. I was still able to fit everything in there just fine. I didn't say anything when she griped at me. I was just quiet and finished putting things in the trunk.
Later I spoke with KJ aka the wifey for a while on the phone. I updated her with my weekend and she updated me with her weekend. It was a good phone call.
After that we took my girls swimming. Then we took them out to eat at a mexican resturant and then for ice cream. The girls bicker constantly back and forth and I will admit it is getting difficult to control that between them. I am hoping the C can help them out as well as me for how to better control that between them.
Tomorrow is mass. My dad will be going with me and the girls. He is going to try and talk to the girls through the mass to see if he can help give them a better understanding of it as I myself am still learning this mass and everything about it.
This is shaping up to be a busy week. School starts back Monday. Then Monday after work I meet with my priest and then D11 has choir. She made it for the Childrens Choir of Greater Dallas. Then Tuesday D7 has dance class. Then Wednesday they have C. Somewhere in there I need to get AA. My dad heads back to Charlotte NC on Wednesday.
W and my dad have avoided each other. He is not impressed with her choice of lifestyle. To him it doesn't matter what mistakes were made in the M by either of us. And he knows everything. He blames her for not putting the family first regardless. Remember, he is a traditional catholic. No excuse for her seeking other men and not remaining faithful to the M, period according to him. So they are obviously at odds. He loves her but will not condone her current actions and she knows it. She thinks he doesn't like her. She doesn't seem to get that it is her actions he doesn't like, not her. He told her he does love her and looks forward to the day when she returns to her true H a while back. That didn't go over well with her back then. So neither has had contact with the other since then.
Well, time to call it a night. Audios. Sweet dreams. Say your prayers.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
