Thanks MJ, Yeah that is what I was thinking...not sure exactly, but will start thinking about it sometime on my next day off. I think he wants to have dinner and drinks afterwards......I asked him point blank a couple of months ago and he was vague but said "we will probably be the only couple who goes out and enjoys our night after a divorce." At the time, I was so confused. Now that remark just makes me mad! He can't make it better by taking me out for a night on the town....sigh...its so complicated.
I decided he hasn't brought it up and so well......I will just make my own plans and we will just go from there...I called a friend in Milwaukee and hoping to hear back from her. Maybe I can just go out for dinner with her...don't know.
I agree with your dressing advice...its just hard to think sexy right now when I am so tired. But next month should get better...so will think about it then!!!
My spa day was so amazing!!! I loved it and enjoyed it. Then around 3pm called a friend and she started in on my H and how can I possibly consider taking him back, etc...etc...
Suffice it to say, my day was shot after that. Couldn't get to sleep until 2 am and took me a day and a half to get over the fact that my friend called him fickle and I couldn't defend him, and yet, I don't want them saying bad things about him to me.
Go figure, 1 step forward..1 step back!!! I just am trying to make it one day at a time. Know what I mean?
