My H is an INTP and I am an INFP. I think we're very compatible and get along great. When I have dated other NFs, I have found them overly dramatic and needy/clingy. And gosh darn it, they take everything so personally! OM was an INFJ. No f'ing way. Never again.
And I happen to be male INFJ. Dramatic? Needy/Clingy? Taking things too personally? Hmmm...I've gotten better as I've gotten older and matured...seriously! Stop grinning!
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007