Tonight was a success! We didn't fight! We disagreed on 1 topic. She doesn't have no one to support her when it comes to watching the kids. So I did suggest for her to come back and live with me so my mom can watch them during winter. I knew her answer already and I just said think about it you don't have to answer me now even though I know its a no. she said ok. We didn't fight and I didn't bring up the relationship! She even agreed on going to the Lil wayne concert! Its baby steps I know but I can feel the wall coming down just a tiny bit. I didn't push her at all. I did talk about her acholism anf how it concerns me and I care for her and love her and I don't want her to get taken advantage off. She just said ok. Wow! I feel good. And I hope this is a good start.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09