Doing more chores seemed like a 180 to me, but I see your point about going too far. Ws birthday is Monday. I got her a present and a card. She set up a big dinner at my favorite restaurant for my 40th. She did it because to her, decade birthdays are important. I had asked her to dinner for our anniversary and she declined. I didn't have anything planned for her. Her sister set up a brunch for tomorrow. Should I have done something? Not much communication tonight, well see what happens tomorrow.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.