Doing more chores seemed like a 180 to me, but I see your point about going too far. Ws birthday is Monday. I got her a present and a card. She set up a big dinner at my favorite restaurant for my 40th. She did it because to her, decade birthdays are important. I had asked her to dinner for our anniversary and she declined. I didn't have anything planned for her. Her sister set up a brunch for tomorrow. Should I have done something?
Not much communication tonight, well see what happens tomorrow.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.