It's not fair that's for sure but I guess it's up to me now. H knows we get along and he obviously still enjoys my company, otherwise he wouldn't have invited me to dinner after the formal, always drop in after the football or invite me to dinner Tues night. He's been playing it safe....popping in occasionally, dinner occasionally, visits to hospital but no commitment as friend or H. In the past I've said I've had enough but he's insisted we need to be friends, especially cos we have kids to deal with.
In his heart he knows he's stuffed up but fixing it all is just too hard....that's why he threatens divorce and to never see me again and a few days later he's chatting as if nothing has happened. I have to try this new strategy because I am running out of steam.
It is a real 180 so it will be challenging. I am a fix it so now I think have to at least try this
