Second, what exactly is the 'gucci plan'?? I think it has to do with dating others but not exactly sure.
Gucci to the rescue...
Before we start talking about dating (which is only one part of the sum total of a plan) we need to analyze this a bit more.
First. What it the reason he has been out of the country? Did he go with any people? Please explain this in more detail.
Also, one of the "key" comments you have made is...
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He's in a place where he wants to do what he wants to do, no strings attached.
You will have to build your whole game plan around that statement. It says MUCH in those few words. After reading your posts I would agree with you on that statement.
Thus, the BIGGEST key you have to follow is this... NO PRESSURE. NONE.
Your FIRST goal in your game plan is to become an expert at this.... SHOWING HIM THAT YOU ARE PERFECTLY HAPPY JUST THE WAY THINGS ARE. Life is good. You are good. You are just living it one day at a time.
Conquer that first and then we can get into the "social interaction (dating) plan and see if we can fit it into the scheme of things.
Got it?
No pressure. Be and act perfectly happy just the way things are in your life.
I am sure you want to know "can I talk to him?"
Answer.. Sure you can. Just keep to the two goals for now. Don't initiate anything, but it is okay to respond. Just do it with the two goals in mind. Each time, every time.
