Young couple in need of help

[sumguy27]

Ok so While I was working she texted me she couldn't find a sitter. I was in a middle of sale and said I will contact you when I'm done.

I then asked if she had explored all of her resources for a baby sitter and she lashes out"what you wanted to talk?" I found one after a couple of phone calls. I said meet me at my sisters at around 6 or 6:30 please.

Since she had insisted that I dropped off the kids for her last week for me to just take them early. I told her I apologize for my actions and that my place is still a mess and can you take them back to your place and drop them off tomorrow when we are done? (we live about 20 mins away from each other its not that far of a drive. Plus my place is a mess as I haven't had the chance to clean and I was being depressed and lazy earlier in the week. I just wanted a clean place for them when they get to my place.)

She lashes out at me and says "oh sure so u could F***en drop them off whenvea u like huh? Even when my place is a mess and I have no food for them right?

Me:
Look I don't want too argue with you. Because an eye for an eye has made us both blind on what really matters the kids.

W:
Dude whateva your so f***ing full of Sh** a**hole

me:
and I apologize for my actions last week. If its a big deal for you I will take them then. I don't want to argue ok?

Me:You couldn't wait till my next text? I only have 160 charaters for text.

W: wateva

Me:
Look I can take them if you want thats not a bid deal ok? I will have to drop my plans after our meeting. And I will take them if you don't want too ( was going to go to a buddy's house just to hang out)

m:
Please don't argue with me ok? I'm not trying to start a fight with you. I just want us to be civil and more mature about the whole situation.

w:
wateva do wat u gotta do. I don't care nemore

m:
look ok these or our kids. Please do not take it ou on me because of them. Please be civil as this is important for both of us.

w:
I'm not okay it just doesn't make sense to drop them off ova there n then take them back n then 2morrow drop them off again. I'll just take them back

m:
I understand that. And I will take them ok no problem. Don't worry about it. I don't want to argue with you and I want to stop fighing about these issues.

w:
no 4get okay

I should have just said yes. geez I mean is not like we live a hour away from each other. And I know what she is trying to do. Its that game of getting back at each other. And the little ones should not be in the middle of it. I'm just going to take them. I miss them anyways haven't seen them all week! I have tried to stop all the foul language with her also. This was all through text.

Wished she would just drop all this anger towards me. I hope tonight is going to be civil. Good thing its in public. I hope she sees that the real big picture is the kids!