Yeah well, you were right Karen. Another talk. Nothing's changed. She says time isn't going to change anything. She doesn't want to put me through stringing me along, that it would be disrespectful, taking advantage (since I'm putting so much into it), giving false hope.
I made the comment to her, I'm going to have to to get a lawyer. She says, you can talk to the attorney that drew up the papers - she's looking for a low-conflict process. Amicable is the word she used. She says, "you can have anything you want. You can have the house." Yeah, I said it - all I want is you. And she said, I wish I had that to give.
I asked her, how does she see this happening, you're talking about going to Disneyland - she didn't know. She's confused. No plans to move out... doesn't know what we can afford.
She says, and it sounds like you're not open to moving out. I said, no, this is your thing. And she wants the boys to stay in their home - but if she's going to be taking care of them, how does that work?
Yeah, when I asked her next steps, she said you need to tell me how you want to get the paperwork. I said, I don't want the paperwork. Later, when she said it again, I just said "go."
