He only can't stand you at the times he can't stand you. The rest of the times, you're fine. And besides, it has nothing to do with you.
Thanks, Sara! I know in my heart that 95% of his problems/issues/whatever have NOTHING to do with me. I guess I just still let it get to me that HE doesn't own up to it. But if he did, we wouldn't be here, right? Duh
Just spent 2 hours in the yard. I love mowing and weeding. Very much like therapy for me, you start with an out of control mess and wind up with beauty and order...for a few days anyway.