Run in w/Ex#2 - ICK! You still have to deal w/him, even though you don't have children together????
Student dying? OMG! The poor little pumpkin. How sad.
I'm doing laundry this am. JOY! Uniforms for school, uniforms for soccer training, uniforms for football... ICK! STINK! I've been so busy this week w/them going back to school, me interviewing, and being their personal taxi, we're all at a loss for undergarments! I should pay D18 to do this! Oh, wait, I don't want to have to replace everything!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Things are taking a turn for the better. After the conversation about the mattress, then not contacting him on Thur or Fri (he called me though), I think he knows I’m nearing the “I’m really p*ssed off stage about US!” (And, moving on to things that keep me busy/happy.) Glimpses of the old him are starting to reappear. He’s asking about my parents (used to be quite close w/them, then remotely close, and now hardly sees/talks to them – they think it’s because of his work out of town – no clue), asked me this am to invite some other families over tomorrow to boat/cook out (has not been wanting to have friends over – only for our big/organized parties – July 4th, etc…), and slept closer to me on the bed, when he got home last night (middle of the night). The mood is good, seeking me out all over the house, etc…
So, I’ll make the most of it, have a good day, and remind him of the fun, loving family he has.
I'm thinkin' it may be time for THE RECEIPT! I'll wait until tomorrow.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
X#2 is an administrator in this school district. So he feels compelled to drop by my new building just to remind me that he can see me at work whenever he wants.
"If you won't talk to me, or answer my e-mails or texts, I'll come and see you here whenever I feel like it." My last boss was great, and told him that he needed to call before he came by, and he never let him come back to my classroom. I don't think my new boss will be so supportive.
I block him on my personal e-mail, but I can't on my work, since he's an administrator - even though I don't work in his building. What possible reason would he have to be e-mailing me in a professional capacity? Oh, that's right - NONE.
But it gets worse. He shows up at 2 this morning, yelling and pounding on the front door, etc. So I just called the police. Thank God the kids weren't here.
I dream of the day when part of my bedtime routine isn't getting my gun out of the safe, loading it, and putting it on the nightstand!!
Dare to dream.
Yeah, poor little pumpkin, indeed.
I need to find some PMA - got any by you??
No sailing today, I swear it's 50 down here by the lake. I walked down the farmer's market in jeans and a sweatshirt, and was still chilly. THere's a concert down here tonight, but I think I'll pass - too cold!!
Popping our for my MUCH needed mani and pedi - then going to the range - picture X#2's face on the targets!! Maybe THAT will improve my PMA!!
Sorry to be such a f*cking buzzkill. I promise to be super duper shiny when we have our lunch.
I like what I'm reading... but be careful. Historically, there's a lot of back and forth. So just when you think he's getting closer, he'll probably back off a bit. Introducing him to Keith in person might be interesting, but I don't think it is quite time yet. The time may be coming though.
((((((Stacy)))))) What the heck was XH2 doing at your house a two in the morning? Seriously? I'm thinking restraining order, which might be interesting considering his job, but still. I guess it might not be a great thing for his job security either. But, dang! Is he totally looney toons?
Seriously, that is more than scary. I have a million questions... will cover later. Not only is it super scary for you, but how about your kids?
How's the mani and pedi??? I'm due!
Weather was gorgeous here today! H had to go handle a work emergency, so the boys and I cleaned the boat, shampoo'd its carpets, etc... Then, S9 wanted me to make Mexican for dinner. So we grilled Carne Asada, corn on the cob, veggies, etc... Yum!
H got home mid-afternoon, so I greeted him w/a Skinny B*tch margarita. Those are superb, btw... Then the boys went out on some of their new tubes while I grilled, and made dinner.
All in all good day. H fell asleep on the hammock outside. I covered him w/a blanket and let him sleep for a bit. (Got in late from work, and had to get up early to leave) Think I'd better go wake him, as it's almost 9pm! He might get approached by the fox in the neighborhood!
Friends coming over tomorrow. My closest girlfriend. Love her. Her H and family are awesome, as well. We lived next door to each other for five years. Good times!
I see her often, but always miss her.
D18's boyfriend is leaving in a week for college. This ought to be interesting!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I just read about your status over on your thread. Pull back, push forward, pull back, etc... GOD! Could you smack them!? Move a few blocks away? Whoa! Won't bother her to drive by when you're hotter, younger new girlfriends little red convertible is parked out front, w/her boys hanging out the windows?
ARGH
I'll get the nerve re: Keith. I may need a cocktail first (liquid courage)!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
