There you go again. I won my bet. You bully women on this site until they leave here, or surrender.... After posting something that clearly was inappropriate on YOUR end, I called you on it. I knew an apology was impossible but I wanted to make my point. (And It is not the offended party that is "wrong yet again, " but you the maker of the comment).
Glad you won the bet, not sure I even knew one was in place but congrats on winning it anyways.
How what I said was inappropriate is beyond me, I think it was an honest statement & question I posed, not sure why I have to feel bad & apologize for that. That's how I communicate, direct and to the point.
Not sure what point you are making... still?! What did I say that was CLEARLY inappropriate. We're here to be honest and discuss openly problems that affect or have affected all of us and i'll continue to do that.
As for my advice to Tristan, it was to treat his wife like an adult and an equal. That means being responsible for your actions and knowing that actions have consequences. Being overly nice & sensitive towards his wife only rewarded him with continued discussions of how she continued to see the OM, wanted to separate, pursue a relationship, etc. That was disrespectful of her towards him and I'll stand by that any day of the week and twice on friday's!
25yearsMLC, You aren't being bullied into anything, you can continue to post here as much as you want, we're all online and we're all anonymous at this point - how can what I do affect you & your ability to post on this or any other forum?!
We offer Tristan advice, it's his choice to act in the end, it's his life. Please stop turning this into an argument session, we're here for Tristan, not your personal agenda and I have to say it, you sound a little controlling although some of what you say has some merit "Tristan would do well to learn what NOT to do or say to women....".
I'll take it one step further, We would ALL do well to learn what NOT to do or say to our spouses & vice versa.
