I know that I am supposed to "Let the WAS come to me" but...

Last night, Mrs. Thinker and I went to a dinner party together. She dressed up, wore jewelry I bought her years ago and looked great, we had fun, and it almost felt like a date.

We were both a bit drunk, and I was feeling reckless and aggressive.

After we got home, I surprised her in the kitchen with a kiss. She turned away, but I turned her back and kissed her again. She said "You can't MAKE me kiss you" and I replied something like "Yes, I can, but it's more fun if I don't have to." (Not really sure myself what I was trying to say - just me making an off the cuff smart-ass response)

I smiled and went upstairs. She followed and I was trying to ignore her as she got undressed for bed and I brushed my teeth. She walked in and out of the bathroom wearing just her underwear and I made a decision.

I followed, surprised her in the bedroom, pinned her against the wall and kissed her hard.

She looked surprised, then shocked.

...Then quickly she responded and kissed back

...then I...

Well, you know...

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I haven't been that aggressive in a LONG time, always trying to respect her stated desires - "I don't want that right now"

...but it's time for something different. Besides, what is the worst thing she could do, Divorce Me?? - Oh right, I'm already there.

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Neither of us has said a thing about it today. We played with the kids a bit, had lunch together. She re-started a project to hang curtains in the dining room, and is now out at the store picking the curtain rod.

Mrs. Thinker was paging through the ads that came in the mail today and pointed one out to me from a fine jewelry store that is having a sale - "Do you want to go look and see?" (talking about replacing her wedding ring)

Last edited by Thinker; 08/22/09 08:30 PM.

Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
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