Thank you for the advice on the kids. I was of the mind of telling her, this is your problem to solve - but I don't feel right about that for the kids' sake. Thank you.
I'm truly sorry that you've gone through this too Karen. It sucks.
Yeah no more rubs. I'd stopped that anyway. I've got to get my mind right, and stop thinking about her.
Talking to my family, they're all pissed off. I've been talking to a friend I've made contact with from high-school, she's been through divorce. Feel like I need to reach out to more friends. But it doesn't help a lot.