You know, I've had conversation with my W about how expensive all this is going to be. We're in agreement. We need to conserve. We're buying less expensive food, etc. and a main component of this "renting a place" is the expense. In fact, I think it's a stumbling block for W in pulling the trigger.
Can you just tell her "we can't afford this." If she wants you to work with her, she's got to work with you. If she wants this, she needs to be realistic. Renting a place that is more than your mortgage is NOT REALISTIC. Seperation is going to mean sacrafice.
