My kids just called. They are having a blast. They kept talking about how great the hotel is and how wonderful the pools and water slides are... The cost of one night there is what I paid for 7 nights. At least, this year he is spending the money on our kids and not on OW. I cant shake this feeling she is there though... K
I am glad the kids are having a good time. As far as the OW is concerned, well, I wish I could say something that would bring rainbows but yeah...doesn't work that way. I think one of the easiest things for me is that stbx and I didn't have kids. So I will never have to deal w/ him dating, remarrying, or whatever. I can't imagine having to go through that.
All I can say is now, after going through this, I can see why some women kill the H and OW. Not that I would do it...but I can definitely understand it.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I know that is a hard part of this whole divorce mess. They should be with you always and now you have to split holidays and special events. I am still not happy with that and honestly may never be but it is what is and we just have to make the best of it.
Hugs. I am thinking of you. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Yep, I had and continue to have similar feelings. However, I try to make the most of the time I have with D8. Is it the ideal situation for her or myself? No, but it is up to me to make our time together pleasant and when we are not together, it is again up to me to take advantage of my "free" time. These are the cards we have been dealt, may as well make the most of it and stop dwelling on the negative.
Spent the last hour talking to my FiL who came to visit. He asked me to :please be nice with stbxH for the next few weeks. As a favor he said. I told him I am always nice. That I need to calm down and when he asked if I could forgive H, I said no. He said he cant blame me but repeated he needs to talk to his son again. He said he is sorry, he said he loves me, he said he will support me. K
At least, this year he is spending the money on our kids and not on OW. I cant shake this feeling she is there though...