Thx. It was tough to hear it, but you are right that now that I know I can deal with it. I had a good day yesterday and have lots of plans for the weekend. I am going to the pool with my girlfriend today and just veg! Going to start working on redecorating the basement for the kids, and creating a fun hangout spot for them down there. It used to be my H's man cave and I told the kids they can do whatever they want down there. They wanted to take out the bar area that my H put in (with old skis around the sides). Two weeks ago I wasn't sure I was ready to let that go, but I am now. In fact, all traces of H can be removed from the basement now and we will all be better for it.
