Just a message for all that read the three month saga of a prat (me) and a pillock (W). (Rays of Hope - Thaw approaching by my humble self Mac-CT)
If any of you get some sort of help from this thread then it's all been worthwhile.
Be aware that no matter how rough things look they will get better.
I've been to the pits of hell. Totally alone. Cut off. No communication. Everything sent into a black hole. Or so I thought. There are friends. And there are "friends". Maybe it seemed at times like I was dealing with another woman in my life. And I think I was. The most convoluted threesome in history.
And you know what? We (W & I) came right. People will help - it's in their nature. Some won't but the majority will. Even though they don't realize it. They cannot do otherwise.
You have some great on-line friends here. I've made some that I'll never forget. They have my undying gratitude for the support and 2 x 4's that occasionally headed my way.
Some have been here a long time and have "seen the worst". Some sadly have just made it here (you must thank your lucky stars that you did). And everyone is pulling together for the same goal. The saving of a Marriage. Of a shared life.
Guys (and Gals), hang in there, look after yourself above all else, then family, then friends, then the world. You have to believe that in doing this things WILL WORK OUT.
