Thanks Nell (from my other thread)! Another Ozzie! Oz now you have a local girlfriend!
Going to work on this so hard. Day by day. For the rest of my life.
And the saga continues.
I talked to our go-between earlier on. We had a GREAT chat. Seems that "friend" has no electricity and no money to buy it with.
Now the text's start to wife saying things like....
"So you even took your toothbrush - now I know ....." crud at 3:00 in the morning.
"So thats how people treat ....."
And a whole load more of string pulling, heart wrenching crud. FDunny that the tools I learned here are becoming very useful for teaching my W how to handle this hell hound.
Blah blah blah.
W and friend had a bust up two weeks ago. Seems W locked the gate and left the keys. "Friend" went AP3SH!T with her.
W's workmate knows all about "friend" and has been saying all along - "get out of there"
You have NO IDEA how many people have been on our side during this three months. And neither did I.
HOLD ON GUYS. There are things happening behind the scenes without our knowing it.
Mum just phoned W - mum is in tears. Dad phoned W - Dad is in tears. Ahhhhh aren't tears just the ticket at times.
Anyway - off to the local where my W wrks in a short while to watch our local side Western Province pummel the other guys.
And yes - W is going to roll in at out home at about 1 a.m. and said she'll try not to wake me. HA!!!!! I'd have to be asleep for that to happen.
Ahhhh - life is so very VERY good for those that see.
Work on yourselves. Very hard. See the results. May take time but they'll be there for you.
