Hey T, I hear ya on the celibacy thing - 27 months for me, no that I am counting - LOL! I guess that's why I live vicariously through the party on my thread.
The time will come for accountability, T. She is no where near ready for that. She still has a ways to go.
She is seeing a therapist and is working through things and she will one day begin to see what she has done. But that is a hard thing to confront. She will have to be on good footing before she can do it.
You keep taking care of you. Doing what you have to to get your life in order.
