I understand about your kids and OM. And I didnt mean you were harsh on your descriptions of your wife. BUT, unfortunately at this point you have to be very careful not to come across as using the kids as an excuse to make her break off with him.
Yes. I can see where I'm pushing the boundaries on this a little bit. I honestly don't know what to do here. I want to take the high road and be the bigger man through all of this. I also don't want to be perceived as not caring and fighting for my family as another man is aggressively going after them...or at least my wife. It appears to me that he is actually using his kids and our kids as leverage in all of this. I think that's wrong but again I want to take the high road...hard....sigh.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
