PS Guys, please, respect his wife. What is this BS about being M and dating? The woman was an LBS that did all she could. And I dont think any of us can blame her for moving on with her life. If she was posting here, what would you advise HER to do AFTER she felt calm and maybe happy?
I don't know about everyone else but I have tons of respect for my wife. I also feel that it's not fair to the kids to immerse them in OM's life and family, etc. so quickly. I didn't come at that without much thought, deliberation and consultation with my C and C's colleagues who specialize in children. I've read many books trying to understand separation and divorce. Everything you said about W is true. I left, I forced her to move on, she should feel no guilt. But I still pray every night that she can find it in her heart to forgive and trust me again.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
