"I'm not expecting thank you's but something other than her windows have water marks would be nice."\
That's your problem right there. You have expectations. It doesn't matter if they're small or large, they're there.
You've been going around kissing her ass while things have been going on. What have you done for yourself to improve your growth? The thing is that you need to show how you have grown as well. She doesn't need someone to wash her car. She can take it for a car wash for that.
Detach now before you set yourself up for a huge fall.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.