I've come to the conclusion that I was put on this earth to be let down by the men in my life (except my wonderful father) cry

I was supposed to be going out for the day with S17. I can't remember the last time he and I actually spent a day together by ourselves. I was really looking forward to it. Five minutes before he was due to arrive he sent me a TM. It said he had only just got up and as he had 'so much to do' he didn't think he could make it anymore.

What does a girl have to do to get male attention around here?


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15