I did want to text H and tell him he was a jerk putting his kids second to ow but I knew it would be fatal. That was why I came on here to vent instead. Then I went out for a few hours with friends.
The kids came to pick me up and neither were too happy. They said H has gone over to ow's place tonight but that's not what he told his dad. How can he hold his head up high and lie the way he does?
The kids said H and ow were going to have dinner with H's parents tomorrow night. He had suggested that we have dinner with them Tuesday, the night before they leave. It seems a bit warped to me to dine with your parents and g/f and then 2 nights later with your parents and your ex and children. Isn't this weird?
Oz, by going dark I am thinking that my best course of action is to do nothing, make no contact at all and just let him go to see if he bothers making contact with me. I know I feel frustrated and close to the end but I also know this person is not my H and I would wait for the real H to resurface.