I see you trying to damn hard. The W is seeing this as a sort of act. Doesn't believe it. She will in time. Don't go overboard as a 180 + a few degree's more (seems normal to pile on the good stuff) gets back to full circle. Damn I nearly didn't follow what I just typed. You get the idea?
Great to see you're taking a break from work. Plan. Do stuff you've not had the time for. Do it for you and the little ones. If the W want's to tag along then great. If not? Well - who's loss will it be.