My stbxH wrote down for our MC that among the things he was proud of was the fact that he "made a brave decision and left us". He actually said he was feeling good about himself for making that decision which showed he was controlling his own life. Next thing he said was he was feeling good because many times since he left, he felt FREE.
The C actually agreed that since he felt so dead in the M he was brave enought to leave us (sort of, not her exact words). Aparently the fact that he had an ongoing A and that the week he moved out he was talking of moving in with OW had escaped his mind or was irrelevant. Like a monkey, grabbing next branch to hold on to before leaving the next one... K
