Thanks, Jeff! I'm not entirely sure what I'm doing. I think maybe I'm leading? I also think this is more DR than DB, esp. the part about asking. My DB Coach said that it seemed my H responded well to me asking.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
