Posting here again so I am not too hasty with my actions. I am feeling quite annoyed because ow and her kids are helping with the move. I can ignore anything that happens with ow so long as she does not take the place our kids should hold. Our kids will have nothing to do with her and they have made this very clear to H right from day 1. I have tried to let them make their own choices in this regard and I try to keep right out of it but I can't help but be hurt on their behalf.
S was going to be there to help but after a minor issue with H the arrangement was changed late last night. D tells me now that H hadn't even invited her to be there today. He also cancelled taking her to the football tonight. (Now we know why) It also explains why she suddenly had lots of homework.
I am cross about this because it was our kids who went with him to look at all the houses and now on moving day they're not part of the picture and they miss an opportunity to be with their grandparents who will be heading back home in a couple of days.
I want to text him to tell him he's a jerk and he's stuffed up with his kids once again but of course I won't.
I am however, feeling that my course of action now is to remain dark.
Feel free to tell me my thinking is all wrong. Please!! I want him to be the wonderful, caring, loving and sensitive husband and father of just a few years ago but quite frankly I can't see that man ever coming back.
Ugh. Feeling sick of this and feeling pi$$ed that he seems to have it all.......
