@##$@%@# grrrr!! that is infuriating NC, I'd be angry too. Other than him being a jerk by staying with a married woman, are there other issues which could count as evidence that he is a threat? of course no one will really know who he really is, but I'm trying to think of reasons that might point that he is a safe person near your kids.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.