I was going to ask you how you thought it would go over if you asked her to let you be for a little bit. You can just communicate about the kids only. No discussing weekend plans, or what you did the summer of 2004, or anything that isnt expressly business related.

Then when you feel like you can do it, try to be her friend. I agree with the coach that if you ever plan to restore your M, that is the first thing that will have to happen, and some people even say fake it till you make it. But I really think that if you arent ready to be her friend, you will sabotage it.

And... WTH, she has time for a mini-vacation, but not enough time to call her kids?

Last edited by bluerain; 08/22/09 12:22 AM.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...