I am holding your hand on the over analysing.. I do that too. I dont know what it could be that he wants to talk with you about but I do know that when my H told me he wanted a D, it was over the phone, and he did apologize for NOT doing it face to face... sorry I know that isnt what you want to hear, and it may not be anything like that.. but we know that we do have to be prepared for the worst.. and HOPE for the BEST!.
I did notice reading other threads that some people show that a D was filed years ago, but no note of it actually being done?
I am learning that miracles happen every day. but we have to make the best of what comes our way... so keep a positive attitude, do your daily FOR ME stuff along with FOR THE KIDS time and try to start every morning with your Happy in place
M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs S - due to job location since 1/08 B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09 piercing: since 10/09 long distance
