K, I think that it is very hard to resist the interest. We are vulnerable.
I now have one guy who seems moderately interested and another who is quite interested.
That said, I am glad I have not gotten involved with anybody. As you said, figure out the deal w/M first. At least it means you don't jump out of the frying pan and into the fire.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D