Bluerain, I will read your thread this weekend.. lots of time has passed many pages to read:).
I found out yesterday that my h did hire an atty and evidently is eager for me not to be in the house when he gets back in Oct. so eager that although he had said he would delay filing until he came back from his next deployment (jan-June) he has requested that the atty file so that he may file an order to get me out of the house so he can live here. ARGH
I am fine living together, but for some reason he is not. Really burst my happy bubble that I had formed from registering for school, starting a work out plan and not smoking.
I have decided for the time being I will only do what makes me happy. I dont want to deal with lawyers and paperwork and all of that crap.. so he can.. I am sure at some point I will have to take my head out of the sand, but I have been the go getter and problem solver and follow thru person for the last 13 years.. I quit... at least for the weekend unfortunately I dont think I can do much about it.. but I will continue to focus on what I can do.. for me... and try my best to stay sane thru this mess..
Happy friday to all!
M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs S - due to job location since 1/08 B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09 piercing: since 10/09 long distance
