Well, some say you must be friends before you can rekindle romance.

At the least, your anger has to be dissipated before you can even think of moving in a new direction.

It could be fun to be the OOM (other other man).

I think that it is good to be dark or dim when they are deep in crisis. It protects you and it forces you to GAL. But you're in an interesting situation where she is coming out.

I would be friendly. If nothing else, maybe you'll get an honest talk where you can see what you think about where her head is. Maybe you can make peace with it all.

If you are interested, then you can think about what to do.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D