CB - Don't give up telling her how important this is for you and for the both of you. My W never really saw how important this was for me until after many discussions. DQ said long ago that the R-talk wouldn't happen all at once but through many talks. She was so right about keeping the conversation going... It's still not easy to do, I know that first hand.
It took Jayce and me over a year to get things moving with our spouses. So don't give up man, it just takes time to get through. You love her... let her know in every way that you can.
