Hey BBJ,

It is normal for you to think this way at this stage. You are still in the "in" stage (or at least I think you are). I told Maria not too long ago that I will never remarry nor move in with someone. I am sticking to that plan. I think one can have a pretty good relationship without necessarilly living under the same roof. But hey that is my opinion at today.
Eventually, you will want to meet people and who knows, maybe you will be as lucky as some of us. You may meet someone who alos tried more than most to save their marriage and who has the same values as you and who is compatible and who thinks you are great. You may not want other kids but you will fall in love again. You guys are young...plenty of time to rebuild! Another thing I told maria and will undoubtedly tell D8 when she gets a little older. History has a way of repeating itself...so keep your eyes open....if your potential partner has less than favourable habits, there is a good chance that this type of behaviour will continue. I am starting to sound old....or experienced.