Divorce is Hell.....Custody too

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No, I was taking care of the turtles. Especially the one that died that really puzzled me. She was my favorite.

I tried to call him and he would not pick up the phone.

H filed for support from me and won. What a kick in the crotch.

Went for custody - he got S13, I got D9. Ordered S and I to go to counseling to see why he doesn't want to come home. H begrudgingly agreed. We said he has to be supportive of it and take him there, and go himself if required. He didn't like that. We have the kids together on alternating weekends. I don't get S13 until 9/11. Trying to find fun things to fill the weekend. H actually had him write down for the court why he doesn't want to see me. Then through the hearing he did much mudslinging. It was highly upsetting. And not right. I will not drop to such tactics. I told the court I could tell stories about him as well but that is not what we are here for. They agreed. They also told him that S13 was only a child, and does not get to make his own decisions. AMEN! Finally some sense!